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Tag: Life w/the Colemans (Page 5 of 8)

Labor Day Weekend

My poor sad tree thinks it’s fall.  What should I do?
Saturday evening we got to go visit our missionary friends from Spain.

They recently bought a house here so they’d have one when they’re old.
Hal and their friend Jesso fly back to Spain today.  
So they had a going away party for them.

Judi just loves Cloe.
Jesso doesn’t speak very much English.. He spent a couple of days with Joel and Josh to see how Americans live.  They took him bowling and hiking and played video games with him.

Here are the guys hanging out.

The girls had their own table.
Jane made us this wonderful Spanish dish in a paella.. witch is a super large pan.
In Spain the usually include squid in their paella.. but Jane was nice and just used
chicken and bacon.  She even went to the store for some sea salt .. 
so it’d be corn free and I could eat it, too.

The Nerds

Josh and Joel signed up for a free community class at Hudson Alpa, the local biotechnology institute.
Biotechnology is Josh’s favorite subject.. maybe he’ll get a research job there one day.
There were only two other people their age that attended the class.  
The classed filled up (250 people) only 10 days after it was advertised. 
Josh says, “Mostly old people are going.” 
Joel added, “And a few younger kids who were drug there by their Moms.” 
 
A few hours before class, Josh was dumbfounded when noticed in the 
class description that “business attire” was the expected dress.
We’ve been telling him that he should wear  
a pair of slacks and a polo shirt when applying for jobs.
He’d agreed to, but thinks we’re old fashioned.
He didn’t have much in his closest that fit the description, 
but was able to borrow a shirt from Mike.
When Joel and Josh came out wearing their “business attire,”
Judi totally freaked out.  All she could do was point and 
yell, “Nerd.  Nerd.  Where’s your pocket protector?”
Josh didn’t know what a pocket protector was.  
Most days they wear a black, Christian, hardcore T-shirt and a ripped pair of blue jeans.  
 
I couldn’t believe that they actually went outside and posed for pictures.
Aren’t they cute?  Don’t pay attention to the wrinkles.  
I haven’t taught them how to iron yet.
They kept asking me if I was sure they should go dressed this way.
I told them that a bunch of people would probably go straight from work in their suits.
I was right, of course, and they were glad they had listened to their old mom.  
The big announcement after the first class was that the institute is planning to build a giant 
replica of a DNA model.  It will be big enough to be seen from an airplane, 
so that Huntsville will be famous for two things, the rocket and the DNA model.  
🙂
Love,
J

Family “JOYS”

I’ve been working on our chore chart.  I make a new one just about every year.  Anytime we move to a new house, we usually REALLY need a new one; new house; new era; new needs.

I switched a few chores around this time hoping to cut down the “I can’t do my chores, because someone else hasn’t done theirs.” syndrome.  Think it will work?  More than anything the charts are for me to define AND remember who’s supposed to do what.  When we don’t have a chart that balances out the chores, no one can agree who’s supposed to do half the chores, and I end up doing them.

I printed it out on light blue card stock and slipped it into a page protector.  It hangs on our fridge next to our school schedule.
I always date the charts and keep them in the computer, so I can compare from year to year who had what job.  Years ago, I’d planned to rotate jobs quarterly between the kids, but it’s turned out to be SO much easier to let the kid who’s really good at their job keep it, so Joel may never learn how to wash dishes etc.  My apologies to all their future spouses.  I do occasionally have training sessions where I gather everyone in one place and show them how a chore is done.

JOYS in “Family JOYS” stands for Joyful, Obedient, Youthful, Service.  It came from an article I read by Terri Camp about teaching your kids to see chores as an opportunity to serve.  Over the years, I’ve learned to love doing house work.  I see it as blessing those who live in and visit our home and I love that I can use the time to pray.

My “kids” (young adults) have pretty good attitudes about chores and are a BLESSING..  our main struggle is getting them done in a timely manner.  Our goal is to have the weekly chores done by Thursday at 4PM so that on Friday everything feels fresh and ready for a relaxed weekend.

If we continue to struggle with getting things done on the list, I might try making one like this:

http://www.howdoesshe.com/chore-chart-for-multiple-kids

I like it because it’s easy to see who needs to do what at glance.. without taking a lot of space.  I don’t like that it requires everyone to constantly rearrange sticks, and I am not sure if moving sticks will cut down on the number of times I’ll have to verbally remind them to do their chores.  What do you think?

I’ve charged fees for unfinished chores before.. and/or added chores to their lists.  “If you can’t do your chores on time and without complaining, you must need more practice doing chores.”  Now that they are all young adults, I don’t really say things like that anymore.  They seem to know that chores are a part of life, and don’t complain unless they think it’s someone else’s job.. and even then, they are willing to do it for me if I ask on occasion.  I did show them and threaten to make the chart with the sticks if they continue to need reminders.  Beyond that I am not sure what to do.  Take away computer privileges?

Next the new school schedule..

J

Angel our Bunny

I took our bunny to be put to sleep today.  She’s had breast cancer for sometime now and the last couple of days she all but quit eating.  With the trips we have planned, I didn’t want to leave her home and be worrying about her or keep dreading the upcoming duty.

Judi volunteered to come with me.  We didn’t attempt to stay with her during the procedure… I sobbed when I had to take our cat, Whiskers, in several years ago.  
Back in the car, the minute I was about to start crying, Judi brought up a cheerful subject.  She is really good at guiding difficult conversations… if someone is about to get in an heated argument or something, she knows how to smooth things over and redirect the conversation.
The two of us had a mini wake by going to DQ and buying our favorite treat; Moolattes.  I felt really peaceful about it all.. like we were dong the right thing and the right time.. and as Joel said.. God gave me grace.  
The empty space where her cage belongs is a little sad, but I am glad for the 10 years we had with her.

I spent the rest of the day crafting .. such a mood lifter.. next blog entry..

Love,
J

Spring Break Fun

My precious girl is making as many plans as possible 
With her new found friends this Spring Break; 
Nights over, bowling, youth group hopping, ice skating and movies. 
All music to her soul.  
High pitched voices travel across wood floors and through 
Paper thin walls very well in our new house.  
Sure wish I could find a place to sleep.
:-]
J

Josh’s Birthday

I’ve been making lots of chai spiced tea to keep warm lately.
My pot was steaming right in the middle of the 4 minutes 
I was supposed to be beating Josh’s cake batter.
So I tried letting go of my mixer to see if it could keep going
while I went to get my tea… and to my surprise it stayed balanced!
I love my new convection oven.. it does wonders with cakes and cookies!

Here are Josh’s many faces during the birthday song.

We are so happy to have had him these 22 years.

He spent his day hiking and pet sitting.  We had a nice lunch out at Rosie’s.

BIlly Bob’s Gone to Pieces

Billy Bob’s fame spread quickly through the neighborhood yesterday.  
Passers by stopped and waved and even got out to take photos.  
As the hours pasted by and the temperature rose we prayed he’d make it till the evening hours and have the opportunity to greet Mike when he got home.
   We’d stratigically placed him in a shady spot, but 
around 4 PM he succumbed to the heat and this is all that’s left of him.  
And all poor Mike was greeted with was two broken solar lights.  
So sorry.
J

Ice Princess

After 4 years warm years in Tampa and 5 in San Antonio,  Judi doesn’t remember much about all the snow we got in IL.  

So what does she wish?  In Montgomery she wished for and got a snow fall both winters when they only normally get one every 6 years.  
Now in Madison she’s wishing bigger wishes.  She wants to skate on our lake.  Last year it didn’t snow here until March.  She’s already had one snow fall and our little lake is starting to ice up.

Ground’s frozen.

The lake’s getting there.
The ducks found a warm spot.
Burrrr!
J

Black Friday Conquests

We kinda fell into Black Friday Shopping this year.
Judi was dying to find a pair of these shoes.
I didn’t think she would wake up early enough to go shopping.
She hates waking up early.
So what did she do to avoid waking up early?
She stayed up for 36 hours straight.  ðŸ™‚
Since we were at the mall anyway I got this shirt 25% off at Charlotte Russe.
I think it will be a long time favorite.
I had a coupon for Bed Bath & Beyond.
I got this mirror to help me see the back of my hair when I cut it.
These gloves were $1.50 for the pair.
I plan to use the fingerless pair when I knit and type.  ðŸ™‚
Doorbuster Cd’s were Mike’s motivation for getting out of the apartment.
Then for a bonus we got this DVD set.
It was cheeper to buy them than to rent them.  I’ve seen 3 or 4 of them.
Mike says we have to wait till Christmas to open and see the rest.
Judi got a T-shirt that says, “Bass your life on Christ” with a picture of a bass of course.
And James got a T-shirt that says, “Christianity isn’t a Religion.”
Refer to this entry when you want to see what we got for Christmas.
Tomorrow’s Cyber Monday.
🙂
Jenny
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